Axiom Investigations 
& Access Supervision
Private investigators & Access Supervisors
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Vancouver & Abbotsford offices
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Is your partner cheating?
Infidelity. Why people cheat, why they don't, and how we catch them.

Your gut tells you something is wrong & you suspect your partner may be cheating so how do you find out for sure & prove it? First, check out our "
New Signs of Cheating". If a number of these pertain to your situation, your fears may be warranted. There are a number of ways we can help you get to the truth.


We regularly get asked about retrieving cell phone & computer data. Cell phones can be a wealth of information because, if a person is having an affair, (or using hook-up sites), the information will be in the cell phone data. Retrieving this data is a highly specialized skillset and must be left to professionals. We can have all of thee  phone's data converted into easy to read reports for your perusal.

We also get asked quite a bit if someone is able to catch (see) all of their incoming & outgoing text messages. The answer is YES & it can be done in as little as a couple of minutes.

We specialize in surveillance and tracking. We would conduct surveillance in a number of ways. If your partner is cheating, we attempt to get:
  • video recording
  • photographs
  • the identity of the other person

You will receive a DVD containing any evidence and a formal surveillance report.

We rent & track GPS devices. Both data-logger & live GPS devices can be extremely useful tools; however, Canada has strict rules about who may and may not use them so ensure that you familiarize yourself with the laws and guidelines prior to use.


1. Men & women cheat for the same reasons.
2. Mean cheat for sex.
3. People wouldn't cheat if they had a fulfilling sex life at home.
4. The other woman is sexier than the wife.
5. Men cheat more often than women.

There are a number of myths about cheating. Many people buy into the most popular one; that maintaining an active sex life reduces the likelihood of infidelity.  According to leading experts like
Dr. Gary Neuman, maintaining an active and fulfilling sex life does not reduce the likelihood of cheating because it is not causal in the first place. In his book, The Truth About Cheating, men reported to Dr. Neuman that their sex life at home did not play a role in why they cheated.  Oddly; however, sexual fulfillment and lack of intimacy does play a role in why women cheat.


Another myth about infidelity is that the other woman is sexier or more beautiful than their wife.

The men reported that their wives were actually better-looking, and in better physical shape, than the mistress. The men reported that they went outside of their marriage due to the lack of meaningful gestures and feeling unappreciated at home.  The majority reported that they still had an active and satisfying sex life with their wives and considered their wife to be their best friend. 


A myth about female infidelity is that they don't cheat as much as men do.  Gender no longer plays a large role in the equation.  Note that on our
New signs of infidelity page, the references to men and women are equal. Probably the biggest myth about why women stray is that they are looking for emotional  fulfillment.  While this may once have been the case, their reasons for looking outside their marriage for sex has changed with the times.  Increasingly, women who have been unfaithful report that they did so simply for the excitement of it - and the sex.  They report that they were bored with their lives and that the affair made them feel sexy and exhilerated.  These women were generally, unsatisfied with their marital sex-lives.  Many women admitted that they have done so more than once and may have had a series of short affairs - often with married men.

One similarity for both women and men, was that the most common place they met the other person was at work.

Infidelity can threaten one's health, family, finances, & even professional reputation.  The strongest protection is in knowing the truth. 

If you think your partner is being unfaithful, call us today for a free consultation.  We may be able to help. 

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Some scary health risks of being with an unfaithful partner:

H.P.V.: It is estimated that as many as 80 percent of the reproductive-age population has been infected with one or more types of genital HPV and up to 5.5 million new infections occur each year.   There are approximately 100 types of H.P.V. (human papillomavirus). Virtually all cases of cerviceal cancer are caused by HPV( Many people don't even know they have it because it may have no symptoms at all. In addition to cervical cancer, HPV can cause genital warts, miscarriages, and a number of other problems.
As highlighted in recent news & media; oral HPV infection is the # 1 cause of throat cancer in North America.  

H.I.V.: As of 2009, there were 65,000 Canadians living with H.I.V. (the virus that causes A.I.D.S.).  There are up to 4,300 new cases annually.  Heterosexual women make up 26% of new cases in Canada, (HIV/AIDS Canada; Public Health Agency of Canada)